For crying out loud, Shoosh and Create.
So: Last night a few of my Facebook friends were treated to a bit of a rant about my sadness at the growth of negativity in the online community - specifically the willingness to post negative comments about a person or entity without having all the facts, and without heeding the consequences of that commentary. I won't go deeper than that here, 'cause it's not what this space is about and frankly my tale of discouragement is not necessarily that interesting. Suffice it to say that I'm not a fan of the ever-popular hashtag, #FAIL.
And: I recognize that I'm not likely to inspire people to change their mindset. If you're inclined to post spiteful or hostile stuff on Twitter/Facebook/blogs/forums, you're probably going to find even more ire fodder in my be-excellent-to-each-other babble. So my current plan is to contribute to the anti-negativity (see what I did there?) movement by supplying my share of positive (or at least neutral) content. It ain't much, but it's what I've got today.
Now: In the immortal words of Bill Cosby, "I told you that story so I could tell you this one:" My last post here is old. Not quite first-birthday old, but certainly OMG-what's-this-still-doing-in-the-fridge old. Every once in a while, a friend will ask when my next post will go up. I realized tonight, after someone brought up my blog in conversation, that I've grown WAY too comfortable making excuses like, "I've been so busy with client work that I haven't had time to focus on my own work." Or, "You know, I'm like the mechanic with a broken-down car." First, I HATE using clichés like that. Second, what bugs me most is that I was just saying those things to let myself off the hook.
But: the killer for me is that I've simply felt unmotivated when it comes to creating. I blamed it on the negativity I was consuming. ... I'm a decent illustrator, but I haven't created any artwork for its own sake in years. I revere good photography, but rarely pick up a camera and shoot. I love to write, but only seem to do it for clients. That's a lot of nothing I'm creating there. Here's the simple reality, of course: If I've felt unmotivated, it's because I was looking for motivation in the wrong place. I know some folks are motivated by other people (or by posters with a team of skydivers); but I've only ever been enthusiastic about my efforts when the motivation comes from within. So I've been sitting at the bus stop waiting, when I should have picked my lazy self up and started walking. Especially when I see movers and doers every day (more on that below).
Well: time to get to the point, in case you're still with me. Time to shake it off. Time to stop talking about other people doing their thing and do yours. Add that new capability to your business offerings. Take the first steps on that self-promo campaign you've been needing for months. Stop walking by the broken fixture in your store and making a mental note to replace it - do it now. Make that phone call. Order that equipment you've been needing. Spend the money. Give up a little sleep. Learn the technique. Make the time.
Plus: find someone to hold you accountable. Some of my clients really appreciate the fact that I don't let them forget to manifest their intentions. Turns out I've never actually given someone permission to do the same for me. I'm asking a few trusted friends and peers to get in my face when I don't create something new on a regular basis. You should get your own small crew of wranglers to keep you in line.
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Listen: I'm aware that NONE of the above is original. Really. In fact, let's recap: Negativity bad ... Positivity good ... Inactivity bad ... Self-motivation good ... Don't wait, start now ... Ask for help. Wow. I know. However, as I said earlier, it ain't much but it's what I've got today. And maybe presenting it the way I did resonates with you a little bit. If so, great.
IF NOT: To ensure your reading hasn't been in vain, here are connects to some of the people who've reminded me within the last two weeks to join the anti-negativity movement, find my own motivation and make moves again. If you don't already know them, bookmark these folks. They're the doers:
Mike Han (Icon), artist, cool hunter and t-shirt slinger of Street Culture Mash, and co-publisher of I Am Young Detroit
Darcy Sletager, photographer behind Something Blue Gallery, original Corporate Whoracle
Sola Obayan, principal of BTO Solutions and founder of Social Media is a Party
Michel Martin (whom I don't know personally), host of NPR's Tell Me More and author of a particularly powerful editorial
Andy Davis, proprietor of AJD Office Interiors and Handy Andy Services
Who inspires you? What have you been motivated to create? Share some links here.


